Eastwind: Out of Lust, Into Life — last updated September 6, 2026
Eastwind is a self-care app for adult men. There is no account and no sign-in. Almost everything stays on your phone. This page explains the little that leaves it and why.
Your first name, the situation you picked, what you said you have been preparing with, the last time you felt warm, your daily real thing, which scenes you lived, how many times you opened the urge screen (never shown as a failure), your fruits, your profile checklist and prompt drafts, planned dates and debriefs, the conversation with him and what he remembers about you, and settings. Deleting the app, or tapping Delete all data in Settings, removes all of it permanently. There is no copy anywhere else.
Talk. When you send him a message, the recent conversation, what he remembers about you (a short set of facts kept on your phone), your first name and the answers from onboarding are sent to our server and passed to Google Gemini to generate the reply. We do not store your messages; Google processes them under its API terms and does not use them to train models. A random per-install identifier is sent with each message so the free tier (fifteen messages a day) can be counted; that counter is deleted after 30 days.
Photo notes (Pro). If you choose a photo, it is resized on your phone and sent once to our server and to Google Gemini to produce the notes. It is not stored by us. You can also take one with the camera; the same applies.
Purchases. Subscriptions are processed by Apple. Our subscription provider, RevenueCat, receives a random identifier generated on your device and your purchase status so the app can unlock Pro and restore purchases. Our server checks that identifier with RevenueCat to confirm Pro. We never receive your name, email or card details.
Links. Opening a crisis line, the App Store or our site uses your browser.
The morning line and the two-hours-before-a-date reminder are local notifications scheduled on your device. Nothing is sent to us to trigger them.
Eastwind is about lust, porn and loneliness. We treat that as sensitive: nothing you type is used for advertising, sold, or shared with any third party beyond the AI provider that generates the reply. We do not collect analytics and we have no way to read what you enter.
Eastwind is a self-care tool, not therapy, medical advice, diagnosis or treatment, and not a crisis service. He is an AI in the voice of someone who came through this. If you are in crisis, call or text 988 in the United States or find a line at findahelpline.com.
Eastwind is for adults 18 and over and is not directed at anyone under 18. If he is told the user is under 18 he ends the conversation and points to a trusted adult.
Questions: tryformaapp@gmail.com. There is nothing for us to delete on request beyond the 30-day usage counter, because we hold nothing else; use Delete all data in the app.